Sessions

Format

I provide weekly or twice-weekly psychotherapy for individuals and couples in California. I see clients virtually, meaning I conduct sessions via video call on a secure platform. Most sessions are 50-minutes.

Cost

I offer 50-minute sessions for $150. I do not accept most insurances directly and am considered an out-of-network provider for insurance companies. Some insurance companies will provide coverage for out-of-network providers, usually at a 40-80% rate. I can provide you with a superbill to be reimbursed by your insurance. You can also use an HSA to pay for services at a before-tax rate.

If you are curious why I, like so many therapists, do not take insurance, the FAQ section at the bottom of this page has more information about why I choose to be an out-of-network provider.

Couples Therapy

Usually in individual therapy, we talk about your relationships and how you navigate them. In couples therapy, there’s a unique opportunity to see them play out in real time. Together, we work to slow things down, identify patterns, and figure out what is getting in the way of effective communication and true intimacy.

I work from the assumption that dynamics in a couple are co-created. The goal of couples therapy is to move from blame and cyclical arguments towards curiosity and flexibility. The three of us work together to talk through what has been left unsaid, make explicit each person’s wishes and needs, and decide which needs to accommodate.

Couples therapy usually begins with a joint session with a couple and myself, followed by one individual session with each member of the couple. This helps me get to know both who you are as a couple and individually.

Clinical Interests

But first — What does all this stuff mean?

You may have seen therapists (myself included) list intense words (depression, anxiety, trauma) as “things” they work with– but what if none or all of these things seem to apply to you? I believe nothing happens in a vacuum, especially mental health symptoms. These are all words meant to capture your experience, but none of them tell the whole story. This is a list of topics that often come up in my work, but are only fragments of who I work with.

  • Relational trauma

  • Identity development of all dimensions

  • Multiracial / mixed-immigration family dynamics 

  • Feelings of non-belonging 

  • Loneliness 

  • Boundaries (co-dependency, counter-dependency)

  • Children of emotionally immature parents

  • Personality disorders within families

  • Depression 

  • Anxiety

  • Obsessive thoughts 

  • Life transitions 

  • Perfectionism

  • Careers in the arts

Questions you might have

  • It's horrible isn't it? Sifting through hundreds of profiles while not fully understanding complicated jargon or being able to tell what's important. NPR created a guide for choosing a therapist which can be a good starting point in figuring out what you are looking for.  

    I hope I have shown you some of what I am about through this website, and I invite you to meet with me for a consultation and to ask me any questions about me, how I work, and how I might be able to help you.

  • I'm an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, which means that I completed a masters degree in Counseling Psychology and am now accruing the 3,000 hours of clinical experience necessary to become a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I work under the supervision of Sahil Sharma, PsyD, a licensed psychologist who I met when he was my graduate professor. It means that I am in the beginning of starting my practice, and am still receiving a high level of training, consultation, and supervision. 

  • Providing telehealth is nuanced, and does affect the therapeutic relationship, but doesn’t prevent it from being a genuine, intimate, connection between two real people. I have been a client in virtual therapy for years and would not provide it if I did not believe it was still valuable. It's also more accessible to join a video call than to commute to an office, and can make weekly sessions more doable.  

    That being said, virtual therapy is not for everyone and you get to ultimately decide what works for you. It requires a working understanding of video calls and a solid internet connection. There are also a few circumstances where meeting with a therapist virtually is not clinically appropriate. I’m happy to talk to you more about that during a consultation call.

  • GREED! Not really, but that's what I thought when I was looking for a therapist in my early 20s. It's unfortunately much more complicated than that. 

    If you have ever tried to file a medical claim with your insurance, you probably already know insurance companies are fraught with problems and appear to place your health and sanity very low on the priority list, and instead appear to be trying to pay as little as possible. They treat providers (therapists) the same way. When therapists are paid very little by insurance panels (or sometimes, paid late, or not at all) they need to take on more clients in order to do things like pay rent and sustain a practice. Taking on more clients means there is simply less space in your head to hold each client, and means you are more prone to burning out or slipping in the quality of services you can provide.

    Insurances also limit what they will cover by judging what they deem “medically necessary” and sometimes limit the number of sessions they are willing to pay for. As a provider, I have an ethical obligation to prioritize what is best for you, the client– not what is least expensive for insurances. 

    The bottom line is therapy has value, and therefore has a cost. This is the way that I have set up my practice so that I can be sure I'm giving every client I see the best of me as a clinician and as a person. You will always have the right to decide if this service is worth it to you, and can also decide it isn't right for you at any time. I’m happy to talk more about how I set my fees on a consultation call.